First thing's first.
your mate / spouse is your mirror. what you're getting is exactly what you're giving out to the world. If he/she is an asshole to you, rest assured, you're feeling like an asshole within and giving that vibe out.
now you might be saying, you're not physically abusing your mate yet being done so, well in that case i would suggest to take a look at your behavior and be true to yourself. are you sure you're not emotionally abusing your spouse ?
your mate is a mirror. keep repeating that. it's law. It's the law of attraction.
if you want love, you need to give love. that's it. there's no more to it.
if you feel your mate has cheated with you, think back, did you not withold love before the cheating occured ?
if you say your mate is not there for you, then are you there for him/her emotionally ?
if you want love, then love first.
if you want honestly, be honest first.
if you want loyalty, be loyal first.
if you feel you need help, email me.
desihitch@hotmail.com
www.humsufur.com
happy relationships and happy marriages !